Chapter 1: What Is Spiritual Direction?

Definitions of spiritual direction from the sixteenth through twenty-first centuries are surveyed here, organized around two questions: how direction is conducted and what it is meant to achieve. The chapter also examines debates over authority, the meanings of the words "spiritual" and "direction," formats beyond the familiar in-person, one-to-one conversation, and how the director's role has been understood across time and traditions.

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On the charismatic authority of spiritual directors, showing how some people are naturally gifted for this work.
My first spiritual director, Barry Young, could be described as charismatic; his wife laughs about party guests lining up to talk with him. Father William Connolly SJ, one of the founders of the Center for Religious Development, noticed that people lingered at his library desk wanting to talk. Similarly, about Canon John Townroe, Sister Carol CHN recalled: "He had a charism for direction without a shadow of a doubt. There was something that came through him which was nothing to do with being trained except through his own life experience."

Chapter 2: In the Air: Psychology and Spirituality

A century of conversation between psychology and spiritual direction unfolds across four phases, from cautious optimism in the 1880s through the Rogers-influenced integration of the 1960s and 70s. The chapter closes with two critics arguing that psychology may have reshaped the spiritual life more than it served it.

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Father Anastasius warns about psychology's growing influence on spiritual practice in the 1960s.
The psychological sciences have entered into the realm of spirituality with all the assurance of their conquests and all the uncertainty of their hypotheses. Doubtlessly their doctrinal and practical data is precious and fertile, but the danger that psychology become a "theological source" by dictating in matters of doctrine and in spiritual practice is nevertheless quite real.

Chapter 3: One Soul at a Time

The recovery of Ignatian spirituality from institutional distortion, and its rise as the dominant framework for modern spiritual direction training, is the central story here. Three of the four early Spiritual Exercises training programs are profiled, along with the spread of the Exercises to lay people through the "19th Annotation" format.

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A dramatic moment revealing the depth of resistance to emotions in Ignatian spirituality, even as late as 1965.
When Father David Asselin SJ suggested at a Jesuit retreat that paying attention to feelings might be important for prayer, an elderly Jesuit, a recognized expert on Ignatius, strode up the aisle shaking his head and muttering loudly, "Nonsense, utter nonsense!" This wasn't just generational crankiness. The elderly priest was voicing a centuries-old Catholic conviction that feelings were unreliable, even dangerous, guides for spiritual life.

Chapter 4: Tradition! The Way It Has Always Been

Five influential twentieth-century Catholic authors reveal a remarkably consistent vision of the Three-Way tradition organized around purgation, illumination, and union. The chapter shows how that tradition functioned in practice and how Jean Laplace's 1965 work began to signal the shift toward a more collaborative model.

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A nun's stark description of pre-Vatican II spiritual direction in religious life.
We used to call spiritual direction 'spiritual correction.'

Chapter 5: Modern Catholic Innovators

Working largely outside official structures, Baron Friedrich von Hügel, Thomas Merton, and Adrian van Kaam each developed alternatives to the dominant Catholic tradition. Together they provided the vocabulary and conceptual foundations that training programs in the 1970s would later build on.

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Thomas Merton's radical teaching that contemplation flourishes not in monasteries but in ordinary life.
Merton rejected mystical approaches that were "out of touch with ordinary life," insisting instead that "mysticism flourishes most purely right in the middle of the ordinary." He taught that contemplation was "ultimately tested in the familiar routine of everyday life: walking down a street, sweeping a floor, washing dishes, hoeing beans, reading a book, taking a stroll in the woods."

Chapter 6: The Middle Way: Anglican Spiritual Direction

Five key figures across the twentieth century show how Anglicans preserved spiritual direction as an expected clerical duty while developing distinctively English approaches to its practice. The chapter argues that this tradition, largely overlooked by the first Catholic training programs, anticipated many questions those programs would later have to answer.

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Canon John Townroe on the power of attention in spiritual direction.
Attention to the other person was the heart of his work. It is "the least a counsellor can give, and sometimes the most valuable..." He describes "real" attention as costly, demanding that the counsellor "pay attention with the whole of himself or herself," a quality of listening that "springs out of his denying himself in order to give himself." Such attention, he believed, "has a healing power of its own."

Chapter 7: Protestant Innovations in Spiritual Direction

Rather than abandoning spiritual guidance, Protestants reimagined it, developing alternatives such as letter-writing, Wesleyan accountability groups, and Clinical Pastoral Education. The chapter follows these developments through the twentieth century to the emergence of the first Protestant graduate training program in 1978.

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The invention of the verbatim, one of the most powerful and sometimes despised tools for training spiritual directors.
Russell Dicks, chaplain at Massachusetts General Hospital, asked himself, "What happens when I see a patient? The answer was: We talk. Then, what do we say? I began to write down all I could remember of the conversations I had with patients." When Dicks described this process to Dr. Cabot, Cabot responded: "Here is a man that writes down the conversations and prayers he has with a dying man. That's the craziest thing I've ever heard of. We'd better ask him to stay on here. We might learn something."

Chapter 8: Necessity Was the Mother of Invention

The collapse of traditional Catholic religious life, the exodus from religious communities, and Vatican II's new openness to lay and women directors together explain why formal spiritual direction training emerged when it did. The chapter introduces the five first-generation training programs and the analytical framework used to compare them in the chapters that follow.

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On the audacity and overwhelming scope of Adrian van Kaam's vision for spiritual formation.
Van Kaam thought BIG. He asked his students to consider questions other training programs never had time to ask: What is the human person when one considers not just theology and psychology, but also literature, philosophy, sociology, and anthropology? How do these disciplines integrate into a comprehensive theory of human spiritual development? It was audacious. It was systematic. It is, frankly, more than a bit overwhelming.

Chapter 9: Institute of Formative Spirituality

Adrian van Kaam's program at Duquesne University offered minimal hands-on training in spiritual direction but supplied the conceptual infrastructure that allowed the field to cross denominational boundaries. Its interdisciplinary "meta-language" proved especially accessible to Evangelical Protestants who could not engage more explicitly Catholic frameworks.

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Sister Elizabeth Berrigan's insight about the mutual transformation between director and directee.
By myself, I cannot become myself...I depend on others who see my life as meaningful, to help me find confidence and meaning in my life. By the very act of being for her, I am fostering my own existence at its roots. A child's spontaneous forgiveness taught her that "a teacher must be a learner too." The guide who ceases to learn, she warns, "is in danger of becoming merely a trainer who is arrested in his own development."

Chapter 10: The Center for Religious Development

Founded by five Jesuits in Cambridge, Massachusetts in 1971, CRD became the program most associated in popular memory with the origins of modern spiritual direction training. The chapter profiles William Connolly's companion-facilitator model, William Barry's adaptation of CPE supervision methods, and the lasting influence of their jointly authored 1982 text.

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CRD's distinctive contemplative exercise that taught directors how to notice without projecting.
To help Associates understand this contemplative stance, CRD developed specific exercises, with the "tree exercise" becoming particularly well-known. In the tree exercise, "you go outside, you pick a tree, you essentially feel it, you do all these things with it. Then, in the debrief with others you notice the experience of noticing and then also notice where you went with your noticing. Did you personalize the tree? Give it a name or personality that more reflected you, not the tree? [Or could] you see the reality of the tree without projecting yourself onto it?"

Chapter 11: Institute for Spiritual Leadership

ISL's conviction that psychology and spirituality "swim in the same river" set it apart from CRD, and the chapter traces that difference to three sources: Chicago's unusually integrated theological environment, the Cenacle Sisters' century-long tradition of holistic accompaniment, and the distinctive collaboration of founders Irene Dugan and Paul Robb. Over 44 years, ISL trained approximately 700 students and carried its integrative approach throughout the field.

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The opening scene of Chapter 11: a fishbowl supervision session revealing the fundamental divide between CRD and ISL.
In a fishbowl supervision exercise, Lucy Abbott Tucker, trained at the Institute for Spiritual Leadership (ISL), worked with a directee while Father Bill Barry, cofounder of CRD, observed and then offered feedback. Barry challenged Lucy to focus the directee on her relationship with God in prayer. Lucy, aligned with ISL's philosophy that the psychological and spiritual "swim in the same river," resisted his efforts to narrow her understanding of spiritual experience.

Chapter 12: Shalem Institute for Spiritual Formation

Tilden Edwards' contemplative retreats and his conviction that a direct, non-directive relationship with God was the heart of spiritual formation gave rise to Shalem, a program that stood apart from the more skill-focused Ignatian programs. Sustained personal practice, rather than technique, was its primary formation tool.

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Shalem's distinctive peer supervision approach that contrasted with CRD's intensity.
Isabella Bates, a participant in the 1982-1984 program, emphasized that "looking back on that two-year program, what was most valuable to me was the peer supervision." In contrast to some other first-generation training programs like CRD, Bates experienced the process as "gentle." She noted that "no one asked mean questions," which helped her trust the process and other group members enough to be honest and vulnerable.

Chapter 13: The Guild for Spiritual Guidance

Founded at Wainwright House in Rye, New York, the Guild wove together Jungian depth psychology, Christian mystical tradition, and attention to dreams into a curriculum shaped by collective discernment rather than a single founder's vision. John Yungblut's lifelong integration of contemplative theology and social justice gave the program a distinctive edge, including an explicit warning against inward-focused spirituality disconnected from service to others.

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The Guild's distinctive philosophy about who they were training and why.
As Carolyn Nicosia emphasized, "I gathered that apprentices weren't necessarily trained to be spiritual guides. Instead they were given the knowledge needed to be a spiritual guide through the strands and guest teachers and the experience of how a spiritual guide works." Many apprentices entered uncertain about becoming guides: "I did not think I could be a spiritual guide, but I knew that what I learned as an Apprentice would help me be better at whatever work I would do."

Chapter 14: What Came Next

From five pioneering programs, the field grew to more than eighty; the chapter traces how second-generation programs adopted and adapted first-generation models around four themes: accessibility, social justice integration, extension into Jewish and interfaith contexts, and the balance between classroom formation and experiential practicum. University-based programs offered theological depth and institutional credibility, while independent programs prioritized experiential formation and each made trade-offs the other could not.

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A Jewish student's powerful objection to using Christian texts in interfaith spiritual direction training.
In the fall of 2003, John Mabry assigned his interfaith students a chapter from Barry and Connolly's The Practice of Spiritual Direction. In the discussion that followed, one student responded, "You've got to be kidding." Mabry tried to explain: "this book [is] going to require some internal translation..." "Translation?" another student piped up. "This doesn't require 'translation,' it's from an alien paradigm. 'Internal givenness to the Lord'? What the hell does that mean? Who talks like that? And besides, I'm Jewish, and this book is insulting."

Chapter 15: Questions Founders Had to Answer

Stepping back from narrative, the chapter uses McCarty's analytical framework to compare first-generation programs across five core questions about teachability, duration, psychology's role, theological grounding, and admissions. Every program, the chapter argues, carries assumptions about God, grace, and human transformation, and the programs that named those assumptions openly gave participants a clearer foundation for their work.

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On how theological assumptions remain invisible yet shape everything about spiritual direction training.
Can training be theologically neutral? The evidence suggests not. Every program, whether explicitly or implicitly, embeds assumptions about God, grace, and human transformation. The question is not whether theology shapes training, but whether programs make their assumptions visible enough to examine and flexible enough to accommodate students rooted in different traditions.

Chapter 16: Looking Back to Look Ahead

Four persistent tensions surface from the full historical investigation: theology's particularity versus universality, individual versus communal spirituality, the sources of a director's authority, and the balance between charism and trained skill. The book closes with the author's personal reflection that recognizing the tradition as a human construction shaped by history opens rather than forecloses the possibility of faithful innovation.

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On the art of discernment for spiritual directors.
Having a repertoire is not the same as knowing when to draw from it. When should the director guide, challenge, or simply witness? This discernment requires listening to both the directee and God. No single approach fits every directee or every moment. The art lies in reading what this person needs now and being willing to offer something beyond what your training taught you to see.

Epilogue: Personal Reflections

The author reflects on his own ten-year journey writing this book and how it transformed his understanding of spiritual direction practice.

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Paul Burgmayer's honest reflection on his own journey beyond rigid training methods.
I began this book confessing to my supervisor that I wanted to chuck everything I'd learned. Nine years of following Ignatian principles absorbed at Chestnut Hill College had left me yearning to simply trust my intuitions. Her response, "It happened for me in my tenth year," transformed what felt like failure into natural evolution. Writing this book has felt like a ten-year process of removing blinders and straitjackets.